Haters!

Hi everyone I want to discuss something that everyone seems to be talking about lately. Haters! I have no problem having haters, because I would want someone to hate me rather than stab me behind my back.  For some reason this is a subject that I have mixed feelings about. Something that I hear often is, "Oh if you don't have a hater you're not doing something right" or "Oh they're just hating on me because they want something I have". Is someone really hating on you or are they telling you something to benefit you?

Actual Haters!

Don't get me wrong even though I have mixed feelings about haters I do know that they exist. The road to success obviously comes with many haters, in this case theres nothing wrong with saying they want something you have. If you're working on improving your life then you shouldn't have the time to worry about haters. One thing I hate seeing is someone thats excelling letting a hater discourage them. If someones not contributing to your life then they're opinion is irrelevant. My advice to you is do you, if you feel you're doing something to better yourself do it. Don't pay any attention to someone if they're opinions speak louder than they're bank account or experience! 

Constructive Criticism!

Constructive criticism is something that often get's mixed up with hating. Although I would think people would have the ability discern hating and constructive criticism, in most cases that doesn't happen. If someone is telling you something thats beneficial you should take that advice and find out ways for improvement. If you can't tell the difference I'll give you an example: I'm going to use Chris Brown (I won't go into detail, because thats whole other subject), think if someone says I don't like Chris Brown because he's lame (hating); on the other hand someone can say I feel Chris Brown needs to learn to act mature, because every week he ends up in a messy situation (constructive criticism). Everyone is not always hating you, sometimes they just have your best interest at heart.

The ones who say you can't or you won't are likely the ones who are scared you will- Me!

Until next time I wish you Love, Lipgloss, and Glitter! Muah!